He claimed to be the illegitimate son of a man called Longman.
1882 Oct 15 Born Surrey
1891 census in London with grandparents. His single mother is almost certainly a daughter of Abel & Jane Darlington, probably Louisa who would have been 22 when he was born. It looks as if his brother is Charles Ivanhoe Darlington. Louisa never married and spent much time in Mental Hospitals

1895 He attends Brighton Rd Poor Law School. Their registers says his mother is dead
1900 Dec 25 married Alice Florence Casbolt in Cambridge
1901 census with the in-laws in Cambridge
1905 He gets 6 weeks hard labour for theft

1911 census at Acton

In WW1 there is only 1 Henry Ernest Darlington, but I cannot be sure it is him. #049198 in ASC , enlisted 30 Jul 1915, discharged 8 Jul 1919
1920 Nov 16 enlisted with RIC no 75579. ex-soldier & sheet metal worker
1920 Nov 23 Posted to Cork
1935 He got 3 months hard labour for a sex offence

1961 Oct/Dec Died Eton, Bucks